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This is a rant. You have been warned.
So I'm on a feminist streak, let me do my thing.
I just saw this article (shine.yahoo.com/parenting/is-y… ) titled "Is your child's Halloween costume sending the wrong message?" In truth, I am disgusted. As a kid I always thought this was unfair. Reading this article made me remember this and I was on the verge of crying.
When I was in elementary school I wanted to be the red power ranger for Halloween. My mom wanted me to the pink one but I said no. In the end I went as a princess to my dismay. When we got Halloween catalogs I always looked at how cool the boys costumes were, the girl ones were all the same and drab. Earlier this year when ordering my cosplay for AnimeNEXT my mom wanted me to be the gender bended version of my character. She really did. I won though.
This is just so... so wrong!! Why is it that if a guy dresses feminine it's hilarious and comical but when a girl dresses masculine it's horrendous and against morals? What is so wrong?
I looked through the Spirit Halloween site at the girl costumes... every one with like 2 exceptions were either pink or had skits and heals or both. As the costumes went up in age, the smaller the costume and skirt got. It was sickening. Also, any guy costume put into a female section was changed to a dress and labeled "sassy" (I am not kidding). Two popular ones seemed to be "Sassy Rick Grimes" from The Walking Dead and "Sassy Chucky" from Chucky. Just what the fuck?
But to the article I had linked, the actual character in ON the packaging. Do you see how she looks? She looks like Spider-man with boobs and a thinner waist. What does the costume look like? A pink dress with a spider on it and a silver mask. I remember when my sister went as Superman for Halloween as well as Captain Hook and Harry Potter. I thought she was so cool and I envied that she did that. I was too embarrassed to do something so bold, which is why I didn't go as the red Power Ranger like I had wanted to. My mom didn't get her the stupid ass girl costumes, she bought the guys costumes. It was really awesome. I was jealous, I hated wearing those stupid dresses every year.
Why do we do this to costumes at Halloween? They're "sassy" and short with high heels and tights. Why? It furthers the boundaries between men and women and children will always see it this way. This is helping to tear down what we have of an equal society.
I've always been very, very neutral. I never dreamed of marrying a Prince and being a mother in a big house raising them. I never dreamed of going to the prom in a beautiful dress with long hair and a guy. I forced myself to though because I knew that was normal. The first time I shopped in the guy's section at a store I felt so free. My mom bought me a camouflage hoodie from the boy's section in GAP. It was pretty awesome.
At school while the girls wore dresses and cute ballet flats and pink crap I wore jeans and sneakers and band tee shirts and hoodies. I wanted to play with the legos and play Pokemon while the other girls played with barbies. I always felt I went wrong somewhere... somewhere along the line I dun goofed and messed up and now I'm... this. I dress very androgynously and I love and hate it. I'm afraid that I will get bullied (again) for how I dress and that I don't fit the female image in society but I love it because I feel empowered and different than what the status quot has set for me.
Why is that? Is this what society has done to us? To me? To you? Why has this happened? In America we like to believe we are free, that we are all equal, but we are not. We are not equal. It is as it was in the beginning.
XOXO
Matty
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yo wtf lmao january 22nd marked my 7 years on here!! I was freaking 13 when I made this account!! I know I don't upload very much now but I'm always lurking lol so weird to think about why I came to this site and what I ended up doing LOL It's played such a huge role in my growth as an artist, writer, and cosplayer as well as played a hand in my friends and internet social life!! This site may be a garbage hellfire sometimes but it aint all bad
I was also thinking about how this was my first time using the username "serenedash" and now I use it everywhere!! lowkey I'm embarrassed it all leads back to here but who is proud of their past lmao
AnimeNYC 2018!!!
This week is AnimeNYC and I'm going all 3 days!! This will literally be my first con in years and I'm hype lol if you're going lemme know!!
LINEUP:
Friday: Lauriam (Kingdom Hearts Union X)
Saturday: villain Tenya Iida (My Hero Academia)
Sunday: no cosplay lmao
XOXO
Mono
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About my lack of activity...
(TL;DR at end) So I think I might have touched upon this in the past but I wanna expand on it. Obviously I'm not as active as I once was and I've given into posting on other sites that aren't dA. I don't know why but something about dA makes me only want to present my BEST most TOP quality art, which would be detailed, colored, inked, or digital pieces. I'm not very secure about my ability as an artist and posting art on here makes me a bit nervous. Plus like its such a lengthy process uploading on here, it feels like a chore.
All I'm saying is don't expect too much from me ON DEVIANT ART. I am actively posting art on tumblr and instagram th
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I agree completely with you on this although I think this is sadly the world in general. I have always made my costumes so I haven't had to deal with this fortunately. I'm glad my parents have never asked me to be more feminine (I just wear jeans, t-shirt, and hoodie everyday) but a few of my friends have tried to put makeup on or have told me they will get me nice clothing which makes me feel awkward. I'm hoping that I am seeing, though, a trend in at least some girls to abandon anything girly which will hopefully diffuse in the coming generation. People just won't change fast enough.